So last night I shared that I was sick and tired of the fits and tantrums. And I am beginning a positive reinforcement chore chart.
I introduced it this morning. I am not going to make or force him to do the chores on the list. Its as simple as, if he doesn't do all 4 chores on the list, he doesn't get the reward. No fighting about it.
So I introduced it this morning, it has been about an hour. He immediately went in and made his bed. He was very excited to pick a Toy Story sticker to put over that box on his chart. Next is Pick Up Your Toys. He is spending a lot of time "just looking at it" meaning the chart.
So, I know this isn't going to be the immediate answer to all the problems, but its a slow and steady start to a happier family.